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ZPGY 2010 Well Wishers....

2010-01-02T10:23:00.003+08:00

I feel and I know I must mark all this sms down for memory, cos all the sms really touched the bottom of my heart.

Yi's SMS (31/12/09 - 21:00)

To my dearest ZPYG.. 2010 is a year which mark our one and a half decade of friendship (2 decade for me and Mei). Really been thru lots of ups and down with each other. We scc each other from a childish teenage grow into an adult and withness each other entered married life, have kids. Their happy, sadness, angry and disappointed times but our friendships is still as strong and it'll just get stronger as the years pass... I believe wat hold the friendship of the 4 of us tgt so strong is 'give, take, understanding and most important forgive & forget'. We'r each other pillar, we'r like a table & chair which need 4 legs to support 1 another. And of couse, we've each other shoulder to cry on.. Let's cheers to our friendships and Happy Year 2010!!

Yun's SMS (31/12/09 - 21:32)

Continue from yi's msg: And this will continue to another decade and another and another till we become grandmother and out gals become buddies like us and they can continue out journey for us. Happy new year to my dearest buddies and cheers to our friendship.

Mei's SMS (31/12/09 - 21:51)

Wow.. U girls wrote til so touching.. I shall keep mine short n sweet.. I nana thanks god tat I'm blessed tat i hv 3 (yun, yi n lian) best buddies for all these yrs.. We share our happiness n sadness tgt.. Let's cheers to our friendship. May our friendship carry on till out childrens generation. Let's welcome 2010.

Lian's SMS (21/12/09 - 22:11)

Friends are like stars. They come and they go but the ones that stay are the ones that glow... In my life there are 3 stars that stay there glowing for me. They are called Yun, Mei and Yi. Happy new year, STARS!!! Muack...

LOVE U ALL, MY DEAREST ZPGY.

My resolution for ZPYG in 2010: May our friendship continue to grow stronger and of cos less argument for us (hehe).

YAHOO......

2009-12-29T10:43:00.002+08:00

GOT MY AWS LIAO $$$ GOT SOMETHING TO SPEND ON MY 22 DAYS OF UNEMPLOYED DAYS....

hAPPY lIKE fROG

School Concert

2009-12-21T17:15:00.005+08:00

The Performance was too long so i break it into 2 part....

Part 1 - Who Loves Baby Jesus.

Part 2 - Christmas Song

Concert Video

2009-12-21T16:08:00.002+08:00

Solo - Piano Playing

The Group Play

Concert

2009-12-08T15:30:00.002+08:00

Darling will be having her year end school concert soon, heard from Teacher Angela she will be having her solo this year (mentioned by teaches, darling is the treasure at their class, she is good at singing and dancing).

And Yamaha will also be having the book 1 concert on 20/12/09, yes we are moving to book 2 after the concert, time really flys.

Till I'm back with all the concert video......

Unforgetable

2009-10-30T18:20:00.002+08:00

Today is a day I will never forgot in my life time....

30th Oct 09 - A CRACK CAN NEVER BE MEND

Mooncake making

2009-10-03T11:22:00.001+08:00

Darling, made her 1st mooncake at school. And it taste yummy.....

So proud of her....

1st Overseas Trip

2009-09-17T18:02:00.002+08:00

My papa have arranged a short trip to the genting for the family from 23rd - 25th Sept. This is a last minute arrangement as initial arrangement is he is going alone with his friend, YES, leaving me and darling here so pissed with him, make some noise den he wake up as mentioned this is last minute arrangement so he nearly forgot about us until I make noise lah.

But even after I make noise darling is also excluded cause she don't have a passport so when we were out there at genting she will be sleeping over at my mama house, but after a few thought leaving her here alone is like leaving my heart and sole here and empty body there. So papa and I have a quick decision, bring her along, but the problem is SHE HAVE NO PASSPORT..... but thanks to the technology make things fast for us, on the very day papa bring her to take photo den the very next day which is last Saturday I fast fast apply for her online den WALAH passport can be collected from today onward. Hehe this will be darling and our family 1st trip so excited..... will come back with some photo.

BLUE RIBBON AGAINST CHILD ABUSE

2009-08-14T16:50:00.007+08:00

IT'S MY AND YOUR DUTY TO PASS THIS ON

I know this is horrific to read and see, but if it helps to stop child abuse, we must all pass it on.

BLUE RIBBON AGAINST CHILD ABUSE

My name is Sarah,

I am three,

my eyes are swollen

I cannot see.

I must be stupid,

I must be bad,

what else could have made

my daddy so mad?

I wish I were better,

I wish I weren't ugly,

then maybe my Mommy

would still want to hug me.

I can't speak at all,

I can't do a wrong or else I'm locked up

all the day long.

When I awake I'm all alone

the house is dark

my folks aren't home.

When my Mommy does come

I'll try and be nice,

so maybe I'll get just

one whipping tonight.

Don't make a sound!

I just heard a car

my daddy is back

from Charlie's Bar.

I hear him curse

my name he calls

I press myself

against the wall.

I try and hide

from his evil eyes

I'm so afraid now

I'm starting to cry.

He finds me weeping

he shouts ugly words,

he says its my fault

that he suffers at work.

He slaps me and hits me

and yells at me more,

I finally get free

and I run for the door.

He's already locked it

and I start to bawl,

he takes me and throws me

against the hard wall.

I fall to the floor

with my bones nearly broken,

and my daddy continues

with more bad words spoken.

'I'm sorry!' I scream

but its now much too late

his face has been twisted

into unimaginable hate.

The hurt and the pain

again and again

oh please God, have mercy!

oh please let it end!

And he finally stops

and heads for the door,

while I lay there motionless

sprawled on the floor.

My name is Sarah

and I am three,

tonight my daddy

murdered me.

There are thousands of kids out there

just like Sarah. And you can help

It sickens me to my soul, and if you just read this and don't pass it on I pray for your forgiveness, because you would have to be one heartless person to not be affected by this message. And because you are affected, do something about it!! So all I am asking you to do is take some time to send this on and acknowledge that this stuff does happen, and that people like her dad do live in our society, and pray for child abuse to wither out and die, but also pray for the safety of our youth. Please pass this poem on as a Blue Ribbon Against Child Abuse because, as crazy as it might sound, it might just indirectly change a life.

*~*~*AGAINST CHILD ABUSE*~*~

Final Art Piece For Charmaine

2009-07-16T10:02:00.003+08:00

The gift for Charmaine 4th birthday from dPhotofolio with all the contributors photo.

Can spot my darling???

Photo taking session for Charmaine's Fund Raising

2009-07-06T12:26:00.009+08:00

Have signed up for an photo taking session with dphotofolio for the fund raising activities orgnised for the feisty princess - Charmaine on Sunday. Here are some photos for your pleasure.

Darling wanted the balls so much so the photographer put her into the balls basket

and there comes the bear (bigger then my darling)

again balls

with daddy

darling also wanted to take photo with the nui nui soooo much keep making noise untill she have it

Finally this is for the feisty princess Charmaine

Mix Feeling

2009-06-18T10:47:00.002+08:00

I was once so determine that I won't care if you are dead or alive, even if you were to die I won't pay my last respect to you on your wake. Cause you simply don't know how to cherish yourself when you are given a second chance.

BUT when I got to know your condition is getting bad, admitted to hospital I don't know how to react, basically only mix feeling. Visit you at the hospital? Or ignore you and continue with my determination? To my ZPGY they thought that I bo chap, and yes I want to bo chap but yet I can't bring myself for doing so.

After visiting you at the hospital yesterday, the determination that I always have in mind just vanish and only remembering how closed we used to be. To my dearest friend, knowing that miracle is equal to zero, we will only pray that you have less pain to suffer for your final journey.

Ho Ho Ho... Happy

2009-06-01T11:03:00.002+08:00

Finally I'm GRATUATED from my Professional Certificate of Business Management, am no longer 'N' level holder but somebody with professional certificate. Will be merging into Mei's class during the August intake for Diploma in Business Management.

CONGRATULATION TO MYSELF

Darling's 4th Birthday

2009-05-22T14:47:00.017+08:00

My darling have 2 celebration for her 4th birthday. 1 on 20th May (eve of her birthday), at school with all the 'xiao peng you' and the other on the 21st May (the actual day) with daddy, mummy and some of daddy's friend and of cos her gu gu and jie jie.

1st Day of Celebration @ School - Bought Macdonal Happy Meal for all her classmate and also the teachers and principle.

On the way to School

1st Cake her all time favorate Barney Cake

Birthday Song singing session from her fellow classmate

Candle blowing (all xiao peng you so anxious to eat the cake)

Finally cake cutting ceremony

2nd Day of celebration @ Chevron Chalet (BANYAN) - with familys and some of daddy's friend for some home cooked fried rich, bee hoon, curry and salted egg prawn (yam, yam, yam) and ofcos BBQ...

The chalet...

Interior...

Some water play before party...

A sweet little swing behind our chalet...

Together with mummy... (my darling smile so sweet, i like this)

All the men trying to get the fire started...

2nd cake Strawberry shortcake cake, choose by daddy...

Posting very sweet with the cake

With daddy...

With mummy...

Happy family...

Making wish... (not sure if she know how, but anyway...)

Trying very hard to blow off the candle...
Finally cake cutting...

At the end, received a few present plus some ang bao. She have enjoyed so much from this birthday celebration, reason for this is also she don't get to really celebrate her 3rd birthday due to her hand foot mouth disease last year. So in a way this will consider a make up for her 3rd years old birthday....

Sob...sob...

2009-05-18T10:46:00.002+08:00

Suppose to change to 5 days work week starting from June 09, but have just received news from boss that this might postpone to a later date as regional office say we have to cut AL if we really change to 5 days work week and this not only affect us but all other which is already working 5 days. And is like becos of 7 ppl, all others 20 over ppl have to cut leave also. So as a boss he have to chose to be good or bad guy, being good is we will continue to working 5.5 days so the rest can still enjoy their extra leave, being bad is he insist to change all staff to work 5 day and have leave cut. But in the end he chose to be BAD guy and we continue to work our 5.5 days work week.....

But we can't blame him as he have to yi da ju wei zhong. As advice by him we just endure for awhile more cos if one day regional find we do nothing on every saturday but only wasting resource they will grant us our 5 day work week, so must endure........

For All My Dearest ZPGY...

2009-04-03T13:39:00.002+08:00

My Dream Bag

2009-03-21T12:31:00.006+08:00

LV Neverfull - Damire

USD700 = SGD1061.27

YEN77,000 = SGD1227.40

Only avaliable in Japan And US (sob, sob)

Longchamp - Quadrille Tote Bag

Price Unknown

Not avaliable in Singapore (sob, sob)

SUPER TL TTL...

2009-03-10T13:44:00.004+08:00

It her again, why issit ALWAYS her. Seeing someone quarrel she very SHIOK issit, dame pissed off by her already from now on I will only call her S.O.W (STUPID OLD WOMEN) to my ZPGY no more the normal 1 cos she not fit to be one. And she is nobody to me and i also dont want to be anything to her.

Whenever there is peace she will cook up whatever to make everybody unhappy and always it is other being INCONSIDERATE, NO INTIATIVE and not becos she PETTY, NO BRAIN, RETARTED.

Really dont know why in the world will have such worst people, even the ulgy word in the world will still be so beautiful on her.

Yappy......:)

2009-02-27T16:22:00.002+08:00

Had an increment for my confirmation nearly 5% increase, to be exact it should be

4.80756923077%

Whahahaha, never though tat I will have increment cos at 1st it was brought up in the beginning of the year tat this year no increment which means everyone will have a pay freeze but I'm still getting my share.

So much thank you to the one tat put in all his effort for this....

My Dear Friend....

2009-02-26T11:16:00.005+08:00

You are just being over sensitive, everything is still the same as before is just tat now a days me and her is too buzy with our work (which is not wrong). If you are thinking the way you are for the secret tat u kept, den u are wrong, do you think me and her is so xiao qi? Be it since u already told us tat we will know it when the time is ripe, so be it since sooner or later we will know. So why bother yourself with this.

And for this tat u have wrote:

If ZPGY can be replace by others so easily then I can tell them now and from here that I don't need you girls at all, I won't call and find you anymore. I can handle every problems myself, alone.

Frankly, so sad to read this. Isn't it suppose to be:

A true friend is to be understanding and not unreasonable.

(moreover we are more den a true friend cos we are ZPGY)

Am not trying to say tat u are unreasonable as we understand your emo problem now, but please always remember UNDERSTANDING.

Darling Update

2009-02-05T12:09:00.003+08:00

Recently my darling is so 爱美 tat she like to be dress up and always like to ask "mummy, tomorrow wear wat colour" she even ask wat she will be wearing for sleeping pajamas... And whenever she saw me doing make-up she will say she also wan ‘cha cha'. And when she have the chance to come across shops tat sell toys for make-up she will confirm ask the pa pa to buy w/o fail....

With her new hello kitty hair clip, earring and necklace

Oh... and also the hand held mirror on her right hand

Nail Art

2009-02-05T11:58:00.003+08:00

Have been doing shopping from UK's ebay and have bought some Nail Art Accessories here are the two creation with those purchase so far.....

1st creation - French with small gems

2nd creation - Design with the lace sticker

I will have another creation but provided i can figer out how to play/used the acrylic mini nail art kit that I've just bought....

Joke Of My Day - Ah Beng

2009-02-02T18:19:00.002+08:00

Ah beng was walking along his work area one day and saw his fren Ah mute,
Ah mute can't speak so he needs to use sign language to communicate.
Ah mute signal why Ah Beng isn't at work.
Ah beng then look around and gathered some leaves under the tree and stand on them.
He look at Ah Mute and pointed down at the leaves.
Ah Mute is now confused..
Later Ah Sian pass by and saw Ah Beng standing on the leaves.
Ah mute then signal Ah Sian on what Ah Beng is trying to say..
Ah Sian then type down in his handphone and show it to Ah Mute.....

"Aiyo so simple, Ah Beng Is On Leave!"

Smile... :)

Darling Updates

2009-01-30T13:53:00.005+08:00

It have been quite sometime after my last post for my darling bao bei.... Here are so photo from my handphone camera.....

On the way to my dad place on 1st day of CNY...

The pa pa look alike when she is doing her naughty face....

This was taken sometime ago, but not too long ago when preparing her for bed...

Don't say I never update about ying liao hor...

Just Can't Stop

2009-01-15T12:53:00.005+08:00

Oh no, with the bill piling up but still ..... I CAN"T STOP SHOPPING, be it whether is it online or street shopping....... Is there anything to stop this? This is a virus/ disease cannot be cured........

I AM DEEPLY INFECTED BY THE VIRUS/DISEASE.

Can send me for a treatment? Well, but I enjoy SO MUCH... whahahahaha.

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Woh Hoo CNY Spending....

2009-01-14T10:58:00.004+08:00

Wat a CNY spending I have this year, after so many years think this year is the most spending.... Broke, broke and still broke but still wanna but somemore cos afterall spending money makes me happy (think not only my but all ladies out there.... Whahahahah)

Here's my spending breakdown.....

28/11/08 - Osmose --> SGD 64.20 (2 top + 1 dress)
08/12/08 - Esprit --> SGD 99.90 (2 top - 1 for sis)
21/12/08 - Mila Fashion --> SGD 86.22 ( 2 dress)
21/12/08 - Joop Fashion --> SGD 106.30 (1 top + 1 dress)
26/12/08 - Charles & Keith --> SGD 79.80 (2 shoes)
26/12/08 - Osmose --> SGD 77.40 (1 jumper + 1 pants)
26/12/08 - Mango --> SGD 33.00 (1 cardigan)
26/12/08 - Robinson --> SGD 60.00 (1 set fitting)
26/12/08 - Robinson --> SGD 25.08 (1 chainbelt)
26/12/08 - Robinson --> SGD 17.29 (1 under garment)
26/12/08 - Outfitter --> SGD 36.00 (shorts)
08/01/09 - Blink blink accessories --> SGD 45.00 (3 earring)
Others - Nail Poilsh + Online shopping --> SGD 49.79 (accessories + nail need)

OMG, I've actually spend a total SGD 779.98 for that 2 stupid days of CNY.

Like wat ppl 女人的钱最好篇... haiz 谁叫我是女人....
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Reunion Dinner

2009-01-06T13:55:00.005+08:00

It another year to plan for reunion dinner with the respective, here goes the the schedule for 2009 dinner.

07th January 2009 (Wed) - With my dearly department and boss,

08th January 2009 (Thur) - With the 3 ZPYG plus abit of shopping for yi,

20th January 2009 (Tues) - With my dad (yes, my dad this year he give instuction to have our reunion),

22nd January 2009 (Thur) - With all the ZPYG and good old secordary school days buddies,
25th January 2009 (Sun) - Finally the last two important de which

(Afternoon - With the LEE and familys)

(Evening - With my dearly Mummy and familys).

What a full dinner schdule I have. Yam yam food here i come.....

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New Year Eve....

2008-12-31T14:51:00.002+08:00

What a new year eve.... Most people is enjoy at least a half day off or those better is not even working, althought my office only serve customer till 1pm BUT we still have to rot in the office till 6.30pm DOING NOTHING. The company is not enviromental and staff friendly at all, if they are letting us off early they save on energy and makes the staff happy mah like that 1 stone can kill two bird they also don't know... haiz..... Frankly even if this is a force leave I also don't mind lor.... really don't understand how and what their head is thinking lor....

Wahhhhhhhhhh......... PISSED waste my time........
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UNIQUE Sea Food

2008-12-22T14:54:00.003+08:00

Really saw these UNIQUE sea food there at the resturant, these are seafood you don't always see from outside normal seafood resturant.....

Craby really big - by eating the claw can make u really full cos this is really BIG crab....

Guess what is this........

This is a fish, YES fish it is a STONE FISH.... don't look nice at all. Wonder really got ppl order meh.... So ugly to eat.....

Unique Sea Food Dinner @ Turf City on 19/12

2008-12-22T14:09:00.009+08:00

Last Friday had a good dinner treated by my boss, actually this dinner should be our (BS Department) treat but ended up we still pay nothing but still earn ourself a good fat dinner. Whahahaha... yam... yam....yam.... show you some nice photo of our nice dinner.

America California Geo Duck Clam (Appetiser - Sashimi)

Sea White Prawn (Pak Chor Har)

Flower Clam (Chili La La)

South Africa Abalone (Abalone with XO Sauce)

Scallop with Garlic

Crab with Salted Egg Yoke

Complimentary - Associated Fruits

没牙的darling

2008-12-18T12:01:00.004+08:00

Just happen to browse on my darling photo, since day 1 till now. Have notice that actually baby without teeth are so cute, attached here with a few photo for you to recap her good young days...

Very 1st day from birth

2 mth old

Burbing her

Smile

Crying for milk

Woke up smile

Just kn hw to turn over.

Haiz.... time really flys
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Promotion - Part 2

2008-12-02T14:19:00.005+08:00

Continued fr promotion........

Here is hw the princess ride on the king when ever he is working on his tablet.

1st she will k k watch the cartoon movie fr his back den put her leg over his shoulder...

Den eventurlly she will claim up, when mummy called out she post for the picture taking......

2nd called out to take the picture with the king head up (but princess not looking cos watching her cartoon movie)

Den when she's done with the picture she jolly well enjoy her cartoon movie seating on his shoulder.

Still enjoying her cartoon movie and the king just let her be doing his own work

The End story for the princess and the king.

Promoted

2008-12-01T17:45:00.003+08:00

Today my darling has been promoted from PG2 to Nursery, all teachers change as well. Wondering did she enjoy her day with her new teacher (Teacher Rafidah), anyway thanks to Lin Lao Shi, Teacher Val and Huang Lao Shi for the guidance for the past 9 months for my darling.

After all remarks from her teachers to her is OK except still need to remind her to SHARE, SHARE and SHARE. Cos at hm she's the princess of #10-748 even the king has to give in to her. Will update later how the king has to give in to her......
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To be continued...
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Sian, Sian, Sian and still SIAN

2008-11-24T12:25:00.002+08:00

Wat does family mean????

Mean: HUSBAND and WIFE don't communicate more den 10 sentances in a day?
Mean: HUSBAND and WIFE dont't have eye contact with each other more den 3 times a day?
Mean: His off day are his non going out day (which is once a week)?
Mean: He don't have to inform her where he is going?
Mean: Concerning each other is not important anymore?

If this is the fact, why set the family? When he see, talk, goes out with his FRIEND more den doing all this with HIS wife. If tat's the case I'll rather be YOUR FRIEND.

Wishing to become his FRIEND (so tat life will be happier).
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OMG!!!

2008-11-10T11:43:00.002+08:00

Wat the Fxxx.... Wednesday is the examination and yet till now this moment I'm only barely immune with 35% via 100% of the lecture notes. Ahhhhhh the notes are driving me crazy......

Only hopping for a pass, cos i really have no confidence at all.

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一千个不愿意

2008-11-07T11:32:00.007+08:00

Haiz... During my "mei" big day there was a big contentious during the tea ceremony when me and my darling's papa have to offer the tea to my BIL and "mei". At 1st everything is so fine until the last part where it my turn offer the tea for my "mei", den.......... Ops everybody say I have to say 大姐喝茶, to me is like blank blank blank. In my whole life till that very moment I was 26 years and 364 days old I never called her not even once 大姐，姐姐 or wat so ever den to me is like 千千万万个不愿意 or shd I say 说不出口 is like after struggling for a few moment den finally the 大姐喝茶 comes out from my mouth, but still is like...... (ai ya, dont really hw to express the feeling at tat moment lah.) But will it is a enjoyable and happy day.
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Can you all see from the photo how 不愿意 I am, and my "mei" is like so happy enjoying the tea and my bro is laughing like hell behind.

mY sIstEr BiG dAy - 12/10/08

2008-11-04T14:12:00.016+08:00

Finally all the 3 siblings of us have our own family at last..... and during the dinner most of her frens say we are SOOOO alike!!! to me 像吗? well up to all of you to judge... some photo for your viewing pleasure.

Fr Left: Mei Mei, Aunty Helen (Dave's Mum), Me and my Mummy

Fr Top Left: Da Sao, Mei Mei, BIL, Hubby, Me

Seated fr Left: Bro (Seating on his lap Bei Bei), Mummy Seating on her lap Darling)

Our Family Photo... but Uncle MIA

The Toh's Family (Guess it should be 70% - 80% complete bah)

Guess what happen after this big family photo taking?????????? Well what a very thoughtful biao ge I have, this is only a excuss to make me stay, actually everybody was told abt what's going to happen after this (even my sis was told lor) which is the grand birthday celebration for the one and only TWINS in the TOH's by my lovely TOH'S family......

Birthday song singing for the TWINS

Darling PCS Class Photo

2008-09-18T11:22:00.006+08:00

Another year is going off and this is the time where childcare/ kindergarten takes picture of all 小朋友 for their memories, when looking at the picture really don't understand how the photographer get all the children in place for the photo taking, they must have a hard time to get all of them to stay put and to smile at them. Look at the teacher must be too tired to smile after all the chasing.

Below I've attach 2 not very clear photo (cos I take the photo using my HP) of my darling class photo and her solo (will upload the clear version once i got it scan).

Class photo with her teacher and the 1 on the left ,THE PRICIPAL (my savior)

Can spot my darling?

Her solo (She cute/pretty/sweet right?)

Infact all three Whahahaha......

Finally she will be upgrading from PG2 to N1 next year. Hm..... will they start to give home work???? (Stress)

Poor Darling

2008-09-18T11:22:00.003+08:00

My darling is down with a fever again, yes, again in less than one week infact only four days since she recover from her last fever. This time no more 39.7 but 40.1, OMG any old wife myth remedy to intro? The doctor and medicine don't seem to work on her (or maybe that 'S' doctor she see on Sunday isn't a pro afterall? - Waste my money!!!). Anyway hubby will be bringing her to the doctor again.

Sad...sad...sad...

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Some Definition on "Wat Is Luv?"

2008-09-16T16:36:00.003+08:00

Have come across somebody's blog and found this sentence kind of cute also somehow logic to my finding of "Wat is luv?".

LOVE is "Kiss Kiss, Hug Hug"

Hmm.... have to keep seaching for the answer hopefully one day can summarize all finding to an conclusion.

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Author: Stephen Covey

2008-09-16T16:16:00.003+08:00

Discover the 90/10 Principle.

It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).

What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.
We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.
We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How? ……….By your reaction.

You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example.

You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.

You curse.

You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.

Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit.
After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.

When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is "D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why?

Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!

React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job.

Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result?

Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
It CAN change your life!!!

Enjoy….

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想一想

2008-09-13T10:51:00.011+08:00

我们好象往往只会问我们的配偶着那些什么你还没做的事；但我们有记得他们所为我们做过的事吗？

Sick Cat...... Meow.......

2008-09-13T10:20:00.008+08:00

What a eve of 中秋节....

Me cough like nobody business and the voice is god dame sexy, but this is not important the important thing is my darling girl is having a high fever (sad). Can't sleep well, keep waking up to check on her temperature cause at times her temperature will shot as high as 39.7 so have to monitor on her.

Haiz..... initially the plan for tonight is to bring her to chinese garden but now looks like have to postpone to next year liao.......

Please pray together with me that my darling girl will recover ASAP, at least she can enjoy the 赏月"event" where my MIL will aways held at her dog house during 八月十五..... :P

Facts

2008-09-12T10:23:00.005+08:00

Men do not understand women as much as they claim to be.
Friends are meant to be criticized at.
The people who shares your sorrows are always your friends.
Love is the hardest thing to manage in life.
You will do silly things just to make someone you love happy.
The number one quote in any office is “I want to quit..”
Great things don’t come many but having many things makes you great!
People go to work because they have to, not because they want to.
Even if there’s a cure for AIDS, there won’t be one for stupidity.
Life without sex is miserable, especially when you had tried before.
When a women comment another women as “ok looking” she actually mean “she’s god damn ugly!”
When a man say another man as “handsome”, he will usually feel like beating him up.
When a man loses her woman to another man, he will properly end up courting his sister for revenge.
Money, without spend it, is merely a piece of colorful paper.
It is easier to give up than to give in during an argument.
Believe is a very powerful word that can work wonders.

Nice

2008-09-11T17:02:00.000+08:00

当你把你身边最爱的人当成是一种必然时。。。

这也成为了世界上最坏的习惯。